WHY IS CHANGE HARD – HOW DO I CHANGE

Nobody Wants To Change

I Want To Change Is The Silent Cry From Within. But How?  Why Is Change Hard?  You Are Not Alone!  Society Is Afraid Of Change.  So Afraid That They Choose A Debilitating Life.  EEEEKK! Scarey Stuff.

PAINFUL $$$ STRUGGLING IS THE ROOT CAUSE

I have observed that a massive portion of the population are leading a debilitating life due to lack of $$$’s.  I would estimate that it is the Number ONE cause of UNHAPPINESS across humanity.  So sad.

THE FIX

The only way to increase the money flow in our lives is to change.  Do you really want the next 10 years to look like the last decade?  We have a new decade.  Let’s approach it differently.  Sorry but that means change!  How can we put a positive spin on being brave enough to make a start on changing our lives?

LET’S LOOK AT THE BENEFITS

    • The pain will turn to joy and pleasure
    • You will feel uplifted and alive
    • You will feel confident and adventure will beckon
    • You will claim HAPPINESS that is your right
    • Your life will be meaningful, fulfilled and vibrant
    • You will be living the life we were meant to live.  Full of love, passion, adventure and feeling whole.

Spend some time imagining, picturing, feeling how wonderful your     life could become if you would only CHANGE!

WHAT WE NEED TO OVERCOME: OOPS! ON MY SOAPBOX

I’m sorry guys, I don’t pull my punches and I am not going to molecodle you, try to persuade you, or even join a pity party with you.  Frankly that is all bull…. and will drag out your journey for months, even years!  You don’t need that.

All you need is to make ONE DECISION.  I WANT MORE AND I’M GOING TO GO GET IT!!

YES you have a whole lot of childhood baggage dictating your life, a psych would allow you months and months to come to terms with it and let it go.  I didn’t have that kind of time nor money, I just decided it was bull…… lies and NOT how I wanted to live my life from this second onwards.  ANOTHER STRONG DECISION.

This is TOUGH LOVE in action.   Can you have tough love conversations with yourself?  No more excuses, laziness or complacency.  Grab your sword and FIGHT for what you want otherwise, I give you the tip, it won’t happen, and you will continue with your painful $$$ struggling life.

I hope you know how wonderful you are
EVEN IF YOU DON’T FEEL LIKE IT

CHALLENGE OF YOUR LIFE

I took this same challenge on at 69 years.  I’m not blowing my bags but I am demonstrating if I am doing this, YOU CAN TOO!  I have not quite reached my ultimate life yet BUT…..  I tell you the journey to the destination is full of rewards.  Happiness I haven’t experienced before, leading my life full of excitement, aliveness and feeling uplifted like never before.  I feel confidence I have never felt.  I am so glad I made that ONE DECISION to take a chance on me, back myself and ended up discovering talents I never knew I had.  Truly incredible journey so far and I am close to my home run!

HOW DO I CHANGE

Bite the bullet, make the decision “I want more, I deserve it and I allow myself to have it”.  I Can, I Will, End Of Story!  The massive learning curve you will be on is one hell of an adventure in itself.  I am 12 months in and I can assure you it’s a FRIGGIN AWESOME JOURNEY.   Time for you to get “the rubber on the road!”

JUST DO IT!

You will either hear me or turn a deaf ear.  Be deaf and continue with the $$$ struggling pain.  I am so proud I made myself do this and that $$$ struggling pain is behind me.

KNOWLEDGE IS PRECIOUS

I want for us all to have the happiness I now have and consequently I have bundled up 3 Elite Tactics to prepare you for the journey.  These are a must!  Clarity, Elite Winning Mindset and the Success Loop will stand you in good stead to begin your ultimate journey.  And guess what?  THEY ARE FREE!  Nobody should suffer the pain of $$$ Struggling.  Why should I care – I really don’t know but if I can help rid some people from this crippling syndrome I will die a happy lady!!

Here’s the link to the FREEBIES.

Conclusion

Sorry guys, got up on my soapbox once more!  It is so friggin important I couldn’t take my usual gentle approach.

Thank you for reading this article. I really would appreciate your comments and feedback.

Let me know what you think by leaving a comment and sharing your journey with the rest of us.

Please share this article to your friends and help me spread the word.  I appreciate it.

Passionately,  Jill

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10 Replies to “WHY IS CHANGE HARD – HOW DO I CHANGE”

  1. Wow. This article is amazing. I feel like I watched the most motivational video and I’m ready for the fight. I really appreciate your words and think that every person who needs a boost in his life should read this post. I believe that nothing is impossible in this life and we must always keep our heads up. I also have a favorite motto, it’s better to regret what you did, than to regret what you didn’t do.

    Thanks for sharing with us such an amazing speech. I will share it on my social media account with all my friends. Wish you the best and a happy new year! 

    1. Hey Nimrod,  Great to hear your comments again my friend.  Thanks for stopping by.  So glad you felt motivated and ready for the fight!  That is what it takes, along with determination, consistency and persistence.

      Please feel free to share on your Social Media Accounts and thanks for spreading the word.  Cheers Jill

  2. Hey, I found the reason why it is hard to change. I learn a lot from you post and start spend some time imagining, picturing, feeling how wonderful your life could become if you would only CHANGE. We know very well the pain will turn to joy and pleasure. We have to go with positive and ready to change to increase the money flow in our lives.

    1. Hi Parveen,  Thanks for commenting.  Our ultimate life is there for the taking.  We simply have to be brave enough to change and the money will flow.  Cheers Jill

  3. Hi Jill,

    Thanks a lot for the helpful and insightful post. The timing of this post is just amazing and it means a lot to me in this new decade.

    Change can be scary, but you know what’s scarier? Allowing fear to stop you from growing, evolving, and progressing. – Mandy Hale

    Everyone of us what to change a lot of things in our lives and expect things to change. However we forget we are the ones need to change the things and make it happen. Once I read, in order to succeed we need to come out of our comfort zone and change things. Thanks for sharing about the importance of visualization.

    It takes courage to grow up and become who you really are. – E.E. Cummings 

    1. Hey Paul,  Thanks for sharing.  We do need to step outside of our comfort zone and take on new behaviours.  It frustrates me that these amazing quotes, like the ones you shared seem to fall on deaf ears.  Cheers Jill

  4. Indeed, change is what we need in our lives to quit the money struggling pain. And before change comes, we need to change our thinking first.

    If anyone wants to make money, they can. But just as you’ve said, “Grab your sword and FIGHT for what you want”. You can’t just sit there and say that I want change in my life, you have to fight your way through. Excuses, laziness, or complacency will not help things. Sometimes we need to challenge our lives for the better.

    I once told myself that I must be established in the online money making world, and it went well for me. I challenged myself and took action.

    If no one is ready to take a decision to make a change to their financial situations, then they will keep on struggling with money. It’s your battle and yours alone.

    Great article.

    1. Hi Kell,  Thanks for your comments.  The BIG hint in your comments is:  Take Action.  Nothing can happen to improve our $$$ struggling if we sit tight and keep doing the same thing, expecting different results.  Cheers Jill

  5. These are some well spoken thoughts that many are afraid to speak of because they think it serves as weakness to call out theirs or other people’s insecurities. In order to bring about change to your life you’re gonna have to do things differently and go after it like you have not before.

    1. Hey Jon,  Thanks for joining the conversation.  On the same page here.  So right – got to do things differently eh?  Cheers Jill

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